To Be A Man (Mega Remix)

📝 纯歌词版本

作词 : Daniel Nwosu Jr./Alex Nour
 作曲 : Daniel Nwosu Jr./Alex Nour

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

Too much pressure on my shoulders, it gets tough to be
The person bringing in the bread and be the lover that you need
For self-care, yeah I had to let go
I'd be lying if I told you that it never takes a toll on
My mind, I need someone to save me
But I have to be the one who's saving you
When you're exhausted I'm a shoulder where you mend
Gotta stay strong, what can I do when

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

I know a lotta men don't feel the same but I don't feel ashamed
Letting the water fall when my heart's ablaze
Daddy taught me that was how to put a fire out
So when I'm hurting I don't mind to cry my eyes out
I only have a few examples of a man in my life
And only one who made perfection life-like so I try
To remember two words when I don't know what to do
Don't forget "Jesus wept" and brother so can you

I can't hide myself
I  don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

They said it's all in my head and I guess that makes sense
'Cause everything I feel, I keep in 'cause it's different for men
We talk about our feelings, we're called oversensitive
We're asked to strike a balance, it doesn't exist so we
Bottle everything up in our minds
We grow cold, dark, alone as we slowly die
Ya ever wonder why it's mostly men who commit suicide?
We figure why not, we're already dead inside

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

You picked me up when I was broken
You pieced together words that were not spoken
You found a way to see me as I was
Even when the world hasn't shown you the same love
You're expected to do everything on your own
Provide and then hide all the feelings that you hold
But your heart is deserving, now show it
I see you for who you are, I hope that you know

I can't hide myself ( hide yourself)
I don't expect you to understand (I'll try my best to understand)
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

I know we all got decisions to make
But it seems that my decisions cause division, I hate this pride
I break inside but I cannot cry
'Cause all I wanna do is provide
I was made for this, I'm a father of seven, my oldest is twenty, my youngest eleven
And they all gotta eat so I bury my feelings and stand on my feet
Like they told me, gotta be grown they told me
You're on your own they told me, but we're not alone He showed me

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

Yeah, patiently waiting for God to show me signs I need
I'm not the man for the job, all the things I can't be
Put all my feelings aside
I think that I'll be better off when I'm not alive
Fought through depression for years and I tried to hide it
Almost put pressure and pulled it but I decided
To give it all that I can
But this what it's like to be a man

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

As a man if you show your emotions they take you for weak and this ain't nothing new
Teaching my son to be mentally strong and prepare for the battle, he ain't even two
Being a father is lit but I gotta admit that sometimes I don't know what to do
Provide and protect was the name of the game I was playing for you and you know that it's true
Unconditional love ain't reality but you can't take a look from my view
A lotta my days were blooping and dogging me so I fought and you didn't have a clue
When I had it we had it together but now we divided your colors are true
I shouldn't have to ask for no help if you knew I was struggling, I woulda did it for you

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

I'm sorry, I never knew
All the things that you go through
I never meant to put your pain aside
Didn't mean to make you need to hide
These demons in your head, they'll tell you you're less than
But I'm here to tell you that you're more than perfect
And don't let the voices make you think you're worthless
'Cause you're worth it, you've got this

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain (I just hope I'll understand)
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

There's just a lot I wanna say
To be a man requires you to hide the pain, you find yourself
Inside a hole you can't get out, even though you wanna shout
'Cause the pain is just unbearable (oh no no)
I just wanna cry and be given a hug
And be told everything will be okay

I have a family that depends on me, oh

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

Look, as a man they expect you to be strong, as someone to lean on no matter what you dealing with
I just lost a couple friends to drugs and when I woke up in the morning man I really wasn't feeling it
But I gotta try to bottle the pain but when they took my son away I had to try to find a will to live
Putting five whole years at a job then I got laid off and the news had me feeling sick
I been drowning in the deep end, anybody wanna give me a reason?
I don't even try to bother with a social life 'cause I would rather be alone on the weekends
Just chilling with my demons, and I just to suppress the depression, in need of a blessing 'cause I'm really 'bout to lose it all
Just remember that I tried to be a man when you lose me y'all and I'm gone

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

🎵 LRC歌词版本

[00:00.000] 作词 : Daniel Nwosu Jr./Alex Nour
[00:00.000] 作曲 : Daniel Nwosu Jr./Alex Nour
[00:00.000][Dax:]
[00:00.001]I can't hide myself
[00:03.861]I don't expect you to understand
[00:07.867]I just hope I can explain
[00:11.365]What it's like to be a man
[00:14.985]It's a lonely road
[00:18.156]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[00:22.273]It's not 'bout how you feel
[00:25.212]But what you provide inside that home
[00:29.823][Atlus:]
[00:29.911]Too much pressure on my shoulders, it gets tough to be
[00:33.982]The person bringing in the bread and be the lover that you need
[00:38.598]For self-care, yeah I had to let go
[00:40.706]I'd be lying if I told you that it never takes a toll on
[00:45.037]My mind, I need someone to save me
[00:48.035]But I have to be the one who's saving you
[00:52.263]When you're exhausted I'm a shoulder where you mend
[00:55.784]Gotta stay strong, what can I do when
[00:58.603][Dax:]
[00:58.604]I can't hide myself
[01:02.441]I don't expect you to understand
[01:06.165]I just hope I can explain
[01:09.669]What it's like to be a man
[01:13.432]It's a lonely road
[01:16.882]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[01:20.755]It's not 'bout how you feel
[01:23.446]But what you provide inside that home
[01:27.874][Ben Becker:]
[01:27.875]I know a lotta men don't feel the same but I don't feel ashamed
[01:32.087]Letting the water fall when my heart's ablaze
[01:35.087]Daddy taught me that was how to put a fire out
[01:38.931]So when I'm hurting I don't mind to cry my eyes out
[01:42.456]I only have a few examples of a man in my life
[01:46.267]And only one who made perfection life-like so I try
[01:49.767]To remember two words when I don't know what to do
[01:53.408]Don't forget "Jesus wept" and brother so can you
[01:57.315][Dax:]
[01:57.316]I can't hide myself
[02:00.563]I  don't expect you to understand
[02:04.376]I just hope I can explain
[02:07.788]What it's like to be a man
[02:11.475]It's a lonely road
[02:15.104]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[02:19.285]It's not 'bout how you feel
[02:21.639]But what you provide inside that home
[02:25.486][The Mediary:]
[02:25.487]They said it's all in my head and I guess that makes sense
[02:28.974]'Cause everything I feel, I keep in 'cause it's different for men
[02:33.603]We talk about our feelings, we're called oversensitive
[02:37.493]We're asked to strike a balance, it doesn't exist so we
[02:41.749]Bottle everything up in our minds
[02:44.422]We grow cold, dark, alone as we slowly die
[02:48.012]Ya ever wonder why it's mostly men who commit suicide?
[02:52.448]We figure why not, we're already dead inside
[02:55.369][Dax:]
[02:55.370]I can't hide myself
[02:58.805]I don't expect you to understand
[03:02.522]I just hope I can explain
[03:06.136]What it's like to be a man
[03:09.734]It's a lonely road
[03:13.355]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[03:17.141]It's not 'bout how you feel
[03:19.890]But what you provide inside that home
[03:25.767][Hailey Dayton:]
[03:25.768]You picked me up when I was broken
[03:29.219]You pieced together words that were not spoken
[03:33.063]You found a way to see me as I was
[03:36.065]Even when the world hasn't shown you the same love
[03:39.477]You're expected to do everything on your own
[03:42.640]Provide and then hide all the feelings that you hold
[03:46.412]But your heart is deserving, now show it
[03:50.389]I see you for who you are, I hope that you know
[03:53.298][Dax (Hailey Dayton):]
[03:53.299]I can't hide myself ( hide yourself)
[03:57.092]I don't expect you to understand (I'll try my best to understand)
[04:00.736]I just hope I can explain
[04:04.296]What it's like to be a man
[04:07.939]It's a lonely road
[04:11.385]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[04:15.424]It's not 'bout how you feel
[04:17.981]But what you provide inside that home
[04:22.665][Brutha Rick:]
[04:22.666]I know we all got decisions to make
[04:25.390]But it seems that my decisions cause division, I hate this pride
[04:29.848]I break inside but I cannot cry
[04:33.814]'Cause all I wanna do is provide
[04:36.635]I was made for this, I'm a father of seven, my oldest is twenty, my youngest eleven
[04:41.117]And they all gotta eat so I bury my feelings and stand on my feet
[04:44.350]Like they told me, gotta be grown they told me
[04:47.726]You're on your own they told me, but we're not alone He showed me
[04:51.654][Dax:]
[04:51.655]I can't hide myself
[04:55.320]I don't expect you to understand
[04:58.815]I just hope I can explain
[05:02.363]What it's like to be a man
[05:06.147]It's a lonely road
[05:09.680]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[05:13.681]It's not 'bout how you feel
[05:16.106]But what you provide inside that home
[05:20.830][Phix:]
[05:20.831]Yeah, patiently waiting for God to show me signs I need
[05:25.166]I'm not the man for the job, all the things I can't be
[05:28.707]Put all my feelings aside
[05:31.325]I think that I'll be better off when I'm not alive
[05:36.123]Fought through depression for years and I tried to hide it
[05:39.731]Almost put pressure and pulled it but I decided
[05:43.433]To give it all that I can
[05:45.975]But this what it's like to be a man
[05:49.518][Dax:]
[05:49.519]I can't hide myself
[05:53.347]I don't expect you to understand
[05:57.011]I just hope I can explain
[06:00.618]What it's like to be a man
[06:04.285]It's a lonely road
[06:07.839]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[06:11.822]It's not 'bout how you feel
[06:14.232]But what you provide inside that home
[06:19.229][Skywalker DaVinci:]
[06:19.230]As a man if you show your emotions they take you for weak and this ain't nothing new
[06:22.434]Teaching my son to be mentally strong and prepare for the battle, he ain't even two
[06:26.251]Being a father is lit but I gotta admit that sometimes I don't know what to do
[06:29.999]Provide and protect was the name of the game I was playing for you and you know that it's true
[06:33.926]Unconditional love ain't reality but you can't take a look from my view
[06:37.208]A lotta my days were blooping and dogging me so I fought and you didn't have a clue
[06:41.092]When I had it we had it together but now we divided your colors are true
[06:44.430]I shouldn't have to ask for no help if you knew I was struggling, I woulda did it for you
[06:47.631][Dax:]
[06:47.632]I can't hide myself
[06:51.456]I don't expect you to understand
[06:55.161]I just hope I can explain
[06:58.790]What it's like to be a man
[07:02.392]It's a lonely road
[07:06.001]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[07:09.884]It's not 'bout how you feel
[07:12.552]But what you provide inside that home
[07:17.547][Shane Fraenkel:]
[07:17.548]I'm sorry, I never knew
[07:22.180]All the things that you go through
[07:26.116]I never meant to put your pain aside
[07:29.561]Didn't mean to make you need to hide
[07:33.283]These demons in your head, they'll tell you you're less than
[07:36.756]But I'm here to tell you that you're more than perfect
[07:40.584]And don't let the voices make you think you're worthless
[07:43.944]'Cause you're worth it, you've got this
[07:46.359][Dax (Shane Fraenkel):]
[07:46.360]I can't hide myself
[07:49.803]I don't expect you to understand
[07:53.439]I just hope I can explain (I just hope I'll understand)
[07:57.008]What it's like to be a man
[08:00.597]It's a lonely road
[08:04.207]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[08:08.119]It's not 'bout how you feel
[08:10.780]But what you provide inside that home
[08:15.370][ThaGreatWhite:]
[08:15.371]There's just a lot I wanna say
[08:18.156]To be a man requires you to hide the pain, you find yourself
[08:22.515]Inside a hole you can't get out, even though you wanna shout
[08:26.727]'Cause the pain is just unbearable (oh no no)
[08:29.814]I just wanna cry and be given a hug
[08:33.832]And be told everything will be okay
[08:39.505][?(ŐдŐ๑)]
[08:41.961]I have a family that depends on me, oh
[08:44.174][Dax:]
[08:44.175]I can't hide myself
[08:47.953]I don't expect you to understand
[08:51.585]I just hope I can explain
[08:55.193]What it's like to be a man
[08:58.806]It's a lonely road
[09:02.353]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[09:06.268]It's not 'bout how you feel
[09:08.831]But what you provide inside that home
[09:13.646][KaveMan Brown:]
[09:13.647]Look, as a man they expect you to be strong, as someone to lean on no matter what you dealing with
[09:18.040]I just lost a couple friends to drugs and when I woke up in the morning man I really wasn't feeling it
[09:21.476]But I gotta try to bottle the pain but when they took my son away I had to try to find a will to live
[09:25.093]Putting five whole years at a job then I got laid off and the news had me feeling sick
[09:28.654]I been drowning in the deep end, anybody wanna give me a reason?
[09:32.064]I don't even try to bother with a social life 'cause I would rather be alone on the weekends
[09:35.251]Just chilling with my demons, and I just to suppress the depression, in need of a blessing 'cause I'm really 'bout to lose it all
[09:39.814]Just remember that I tried to be a man when you lose me y'all and I'm gone
[09:42.521][Dax:]
[09:44.164]I can't hide myself
[09:46.101]I don't expect you to understand
[09:49.675]I just hope I can explain
[09:53.378]What it's like to be a man
[09:57.057]It's a lonely road
[10:00.792]And they don't care 'bout what you know
[10:04.581]It's not 'bout how you feel
[10:07.307]But what you provide inside that home

🌍 纯翻译歌词

我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的感情无关
而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
肩上承担着太多压力
成为一个为生活谋生,同时做你所需要依靠的爱人是一件艰辛的事
为了自我关怀,我曾不得不放手
如果我告诉你这一切从未使我疲倦,那是我在说谎啊
我的内心深处,需要一个可以拯救我的人
可我必须是那位向你伸出援助之手的人
当你精疲力竭时,我是你伤口愈合的肩膀
除了保持坚强,彼时我还能做些什么
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和与你的情感无关
而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
我知道很多男人不会有相同的感受,但我并不感到羞愧
当我内心的那团火在熊熊燃烧之际,我会让泪水流下
父亲曾教会我那就是扑灭迷茫火苗的方法
所以当我受伤时,我不介意放声大哭
我短暂一生中仅有几位能够作为关于男人的榜样
况且只有一位能够将完美一次生动地演绎出来,所以我尽量
记住两个词,当我不知所措时,
不要忘记“耶稣哭泣',兄弟,因此你也可以展露脆弱的一面
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的情感无关
而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
他(她)们说这都是我脑海中的幻想,我想这讲得通
因为我感受到的一切,都将被我埋藏,因为那对于每一个人来说是不同的
我们谈论我们的情感,却被称为过于敏感
我们被要求达到一个平衡点,但这根本就不存在,所以
我们把一切雪藏在内心的深渊
随着我们慢慢步入死亡,我们变得冷漠,黑暗,孤独
你曾追问过自己为什么多数自杀的人是男性呢?
我们想,何尝不是呢,我们的内心早已凋谢
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的感情无关
而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
当我破碎不堪之时,是你默默支持着我携手前进
你拼凑起了未被表达过的话语
你发现了看待我本真的方式
即使这个世界从未向你展示同样的爱
你期望自己独自承担一切
付出一切,并将你的情感隐藏起来
但你怦怦跳动的内心是值得的,现在展示出来吧
我窥见你真实的模样,我希望你知道
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解(我会尽量理解这一点)
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的感情无关
而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
我清楚我们都要做出决定
但似乎我的决定引发了分歧,我讨厌这种廉价的自尊
我内心崩溃,但我不能抽泣
因为我唯一想要做到的正是付出
我为此而生,我是七个孩子的父亲,我最大的孩子已经二十岁,最小的也已十一岁了
他(她)们都需要由我养育,所以我悄悄藏起了自己的感情,独自负重前行
正如他(她)们所说,我必须长大,
他(她)们告诉我必须独自面对,但他(她)向我展示了我们并不独行
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只是希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的感情无关
而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
是的,耐心等待着上帝向我施舍我亟需的指引
我显然不是这份工作的合适人选,那都是我无法胜任的事情
把我内心复杂的感受搁置一旁,
我想当我离开这世间,我会变得更好
经过几年抑郁症的无情折磨,我努力不向世人展现出无声的呐喊
承受了成吨的压力并一度放弃挣扎,但我决定
竭尽全力
可这正是成为一个男人的真切感受啊
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的感情无关
而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
作为一个男人,如果倘若你坦露出自己的情感,他(她)们会认为你软弱,这一点并不新鲜
教导我还未满两岁的儿子要心理强大,为残忍的生活现实做好战斗准备
作为一名父亲是一件很棒的事情,但我不得不承认,有时候我会迷失方向
倾尽一切和遮风挡雨是我所扮演的角色,我为你奋战到底,你也知道那是真的
无条件的爱并不是现实,但你不能从我的视角来审视
我有很多天都被忽视和责备,所以我与之对抗,而你毫不知情
当我拥有时,我们一起拥有,但我们现在分道扬镳,你的真实色彩浮出水面
要是你知道我在苦苦挣扎,四处碰壁,我就不应该恳求帮助,我本会为你披荆斩棘
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的情感无关
而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
对不起,我从未了解过
你所经历的这一切
我从未打算对你的痛苦熟视无睹
我从未打算让你需要刻意躲藏
这些萦绕于你脑海中的恶魔,它们会告诉你你不如他(她)人
但我在这里告诉你,你远比完美更完美
不要让这些声音使你认为你自己一文不值
因为你值得世间一切美好与幸运,你能做到的
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚(我只希望自己能够理解这一点)
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的感情无关
而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
我有很多话想要倾诉
成为一个顶天立地的男人需要掩盖自己的伤口,你会发现自己
深陷于无法摆脱的万丈深渊,尽管你想要竭斯底里地呐喊
因为痛苦实在是难以承受(哦不,哦不)
我只想放声哭泣,投入温暖的怀抱
听到耳边传来一句温柔的一切都会好起来的
我有一个依赖我的家庭,哦...
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独之路
他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
这和你的情感无关
而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
看着,作为一个男人,人们期望你坚强,成为一个不论你面对何等挫折时都可以依靠的人
我刚刚失去了几个知心朋友,他们因为吸食**而去世,当我清晨醒来时,我真的郁郁寡欢
但我必须试着忍住痛苦,但当他们带走了我的儿子,我不得不尝试重获支撑我生存下去的信念
我在一份工作岗位上勤勤恳恳工作了整整五年,然后被解雇了,这个消息令我感到恶心抓狂
我一直在深渊中挣扎,有任何人想给我一个理由吗?
我甚至不愿意尝试与社交生活打交道,因为我宁愿在周末独自一人
只是和我内心的恶魔一起消磨时光,我试图压制抑郁,需要祝福,因为我真的不久后便会失去一切
请记住,我曾尽力做一个男人,当你失去我的时候,我就收拾行囊
我无法隐藏自我
我并不期待你能理解
我只希冀我能够解释清楚
成为一个男人是怎样的感受
这是一条孤独的道路
他(她)们不会在意你所知晓
这和你的情感不搭嘎
而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴

🔤 LRC翻译歌词

[00:00.001]我无法隐藏自我
[00:03.861]我并不期待你能理解
[00:07.867]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[00:11.365]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[00:14.985]这是一条孤独之路
[00:18.156]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[00:22.273]这和你的感情无关
[00:25.212]而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
[00:29.911]肩上承担着太多压力
[00:33.982]成为一个为生活谋生,同时做你所需要依靠的爱人是一件艰辛的事
[00:38.598]为了自我关怀,我曾不得不放手
[00:40.706]如果我告诉你这一切从未使我疲倦,那是我在说谎啊
[00:45.037]我的内心深处,需要一个可以拯救我的人
[00:48.035]可我必须是那位向你伸出援助之手的人
[00:52.263]当你精疲力竭时,我是你伤口愈合的肩膀
[00:55.784]除了保持坚强,彼时我还能做些什么
[00:58.604]我无法隐藏自我
[01:02.441]我并不期待你能理解
[01:06.165]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[01:09.669]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[01:13.432]这是一条孤独之路
[01:16.882]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[01:20.755]这和与你的情感无关
[01:23.446]而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
[01:27.875]我知道很多男人不会有相同的感受,但我并不感到羞愧
[01:32.087]当我内心的那团火在熊熊燃烧之际,我会让泪水流下
[01:35.087]父亲曾教会我那就是扑灭迷茫火苗的方法
[01:38.931]所以当我受伤时,我不介意放声大哭
[01:42.456]我短暂一生中仅有几位能够作为关于男人的榜样
[01:46.267]况且只有一位能够将完美一次生动地演绎出来,所以我尽量
[01:49.767]记住两个词,当我不知所措时,
[01:53.408]不要忘记“耶稣哭泣',兄弟,因此你也可以展露脆弱的一面
[01:57.316]我无法隐藏自我
[02:00.563]我并不期待你能理解
[02:04.376]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[02:07.788]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[02:11.475]这是一条孤独之路
[02:15.104]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[02:19.285]这和你的情感无关
[02:21.639]而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
[02:25.487]他(她)们说这都是我脑海中的幻想,我想这讲得通
[02:28.974]因为我感受到的一切,都将被我埋藏,因为那对于每一个人来说是不同的
[02:33.603]我们谈论我们的情感,却被称为过于敏感
[02:37.493]我们被要求达到一个平衡点,但这根本就不存在,所以
[02:41.749]我们把一切雪藏在内心的深渊
[02:44.422]随着我们慢慢步入死亡,我们变得冷漠,黑暗,孤独
[02:48.012]你曾追问过自己为什么多数自杀的人是男性呢?
[02:52.448]我们想,何尝不是呢,我们的内心早已凋谢
[02:55.370]我无法隐藏自我
[02:58.805]我并不期待你能理解
[03:02.522]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[03:06.136]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[03:09.734]这是一条孤独之路
[03:13.355]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[03:17.141]这和你的感情无关
[03:19.890]而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
[03:25.768]当我破碎不堪之时,是你默默支持着我携手前进
[03:29.219]你拼凑起了未被表达过的话语
[03:33.063]你发现了看待我本真的方式
[03:36.065]即使这个世界从未向你展示同样的爱
[03:39.477]你期望自己独自承担一切
[03:42.640]付出一切,并将你的情感隐藏起来
[03:46.412]但你怦怦跳动的内心是值得的,现在展示出来吧
[03:50.389]我窥见你真实的模样,我希望你知道
[03:53.299]我无法隐藏自我
[03:57.092]我并不期待你能理解(我会尽量理解这一点)
[04:00.736]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[04:04.296]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[04:07.939]这是一条孤独之路
[04:11.385]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[04:15.424]这和你的感情无关
[04:17.981]而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
[04:22.666]我清楚我们都要做出决定
[04:25.390]但似乎我的决定引发了分歧,我讨厌这种廉价的自尊
[04:29.848]我内心崩溃,但我不能抽泣
[04:33.814]因为我唯一想要做到的正是付出
[04:36.635]我为此而生,我是七个孩子的父亲,我最大的孩子已经二十岁,最小的也已十一岁了
[04:41.117]他(她)们都需要由我养育,所以我悄悄藏起了自己的感情,独自负重前行
[04:44.350]正如他(她)们所说,我必须长大,
[04:47.726]他(她)们告诉我必须独自面对,但他(她)向我展示了我们并不独行
[04:51.655]我无法隐藏自我
[04:55.320]我并不期待你能理解
[04:58.815]我只是希冀我能够解释清楚
[05:02.363]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[05:06.147]这是一条孤独之路
[05:09.680]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[05:13.681]这和你的感情无关
[05:16.106]而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
[05:20.831]是的,耐心等待着上帝向我施舍我亟需的指引
[05:25.166]我显然不是这份工作的合适人选,那都是我无法胜任的事情
[05:28.707]把我内心复杂的感受搁置一旁,
[05:31.325]我想当我离开这世间,我会变得更好
[05:36.123]经过几年抑郁症的无情折磨,我努力不向世人展现出无声的呐喊
[05:39.731]承受了成吨的压力并一度放弃挣扎,但我决定
[05:43.433]竭尽全力
[05:45.975]可这正是成为一个男人的真切感受啊
[05:49.519]我无法隐藏自我
[05:53.347]我并不期待你能理解
[05:57.011]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[06:00.618]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[06:04.285]这是一条孤独之路
[06:07.839]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[06:11.822]这和你的感情无关
[06:14.232]而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
[06:19.230]作为一个男人,如果倘若你坦露出自己的情感,他(她)们会认为你软弱,这一点并不新鲜
[06:22.434]教导我还未满两岁的儿子要心理强大,为残忍的生活现实做好战斗准备
[06:26.251]作为一名父亲是一件很棒的事情,但我不得不承认,有时候我会迷失方向
[06:29.999]倾尽一切和遮风挡雨是我所扮演的角色,我为你奋战到底,你也知道那是真的
[06:33.926]无条件的爱并不是现实,但你不能从我的视角来审视
[06:37.208]我有很多天都被忽视和责备,所以我与之对抗,而你毫不知情
[06:41.092]当我拥有时,我们一起拥有,但我们现在分道扬镳,你的真实色彩浮出水面
[06:44.430]要是你知道我在苦苦挣扎,四处碰壁,我就不应该恳求帮助,我本会为你披荆斩棘
[06:47.632]我无法隐藏自我
[06:51.456]我并不期待你能理解
[06:55.161]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[06:58.790]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[07:02.392]这是一条孤独之路
[07:06.001]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[07:09.884]这和你的情感无关
[07:12.552]而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
[07:17.548]对不起,我从未了解过
[07:22.180]你所经历的这一切
[07:26.116]我从未打算对你的痛苦熟视无睹
[07:29.561]我从未打算让你需要刻意躲藏
[07:33.283]这些萦绕于你脑海中的恶魔,它们会告诉你你不如他(她)人
[07:36.756]但我在这里告诉你,你远比完美更完美
[07:40.584]不要让这些声音使你认为你自己一文不值
[07:43.944]因为你值得世间一切美好与幸运,你能做到的
[07:46.360]我无法隐藏自我
[07:49.803]我并不期待你能理解
[07:53.439]我只希冀我能够解释清楚(我只希望自己能够理解这一点)
[07:57.008]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[08:00.597]这是一条孤独之路
[08:04.207]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[08:08.119]这和你的感情无关
[08:10.780]而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴
[08:15.371]我有很多话想要倾诉
[08:18.156]成为一个顶天立地的男人需要掩盖自己的伤口,你会发现自己
[08:22.515]深陷于无法摆脱的万丈深渊,尽管你想要竭斯底里地呐喊
[08:26.727]因为痛苦实在是难以承受(哦不,哦不)
[08:29.814]我只想放声哭泣,投入温暖的怀抱
[08:33.832]听到耳边传来一句温柔的一切都会好起来的
[08:41.961]我有一个依赖我的家庭,哦...
[08:44.175]我无法隐藏自我
[08:47.953]我并不期待你能理解
[08:51.585]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[08:55.193]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[08:58.806]这是一条孤独之路
[09:02.353]他(她)们并不在意你所知晓
[09:06.268]这和你的情感无关
[09:08.831]而是你为家庭付出的点点滴滴
[09:13.647]看着,作为一个男人,人们期望你坚强,成为一个不论你面对何等挫折时都可以依靠的人
[09:18.040]我刚刚失去了几个知心朋友,他们因为吸食**而去世,当我清晨醒来时,我真的郁郁寡欢
[09:21.476]但我必须试着忍住痛苦,但当他们带走了我的儿子,我不得不尝试重获支撑我生存下去的信念
[09:25.093]我在一份工作岗位上勤勤恳恳工作了整整五年,然后被解雇了,这个消息令我感到恶心抓狂
[09:28.654]我一直在深渊中挣扎,有任何人想给我一个理由吗?
[09:32.064]我甚至不愿意尝试与社交生活打交道,因为我宁愿在周末独自一人
[09:35.251]只是和我内心的恶魔一起消磨时光,我试图压制抑郁,需要祝福,因为我真的不久后便会失去一切
[09:39.814]请记住,我曾尽力做一个男人,当你失去我的时候,我就收拾行囊
[09:44.164]我无法隐藏自我
[09:46.101]我并不期待你能理解
[09:49.675]我只希冀我能够解释清楚
[09:53.378]成为一个男人是怎样的感受
[09:57.057]这是一条孤独的道路
[10:00.792]他(她)们不会在意你所知晓
[10:04.581]这和你的情感不搭嘎
[10:07.307]而是你为家庭所付出的点点滴滴

📝 纯歌词版本

作词 : Daniel Nwosu Jr./Alex Nour
 作曲 : Daniel Nwosu Jr./Alex Nour

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

Too much pressure on my shoulders, it gets tough to be
The person bringing in the bread and be the lover that you need
For self-care, yeah I had to let go
I'd be lying if I told you that it never takes a toll on
My mind, I need someone to save me
But I have to be the one who's saving you
When you're exhausted I'm a shoulder where you mend
Gotta stay strong, what can I do when

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

I know a lotta men don't feel the same but I don't feel ashamed
Letting the water fall when my heart's ablaze
Daddy taught me that was how to put a fire out
So when I'm hurting I don't mind to cry my eyes out
I only have a few examples of a man in my life
And only one who made perfection life-like so I try
To remember two words when I don't know what to do
Don't forget "Jesus wept" and brother so can you

I can't hide myself
I  don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

They said it's all in my head and I guess that makes sense
'Cause everything I feel, I keep in 'cause it's different for men
We talk about our feelings, we're called oversensitive
We're asked to strike a balance, it doesn't exist so we
Bottle everything up in our minds
We grow cold, dark, alone as we slowly die
Ya ever wonder why it's mostly men who commit suicide?
We figure why not, we're already dead inside

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

You picked me up when I was broken
You pieced together words that were not spoken
You found a way to see me as I was
Even when the world hasn't shown you the same love
You're expected to do everything on your own
Provide and then hide all the feelings that you hold
But your heart is deserving, now show it
I see you for who you are, I hope that you know

I can't hide myself ( hide yourself)
I don't expect you to understand (I'll try my best to understand)
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

I know we all got decisions to make
But it seems that my decisions cause division, I hate this pride
I break inside but I cannot cry
'Cause all I wanna do is provide
I was made for this, I'm a father of seven, my oldest is twenty, my youngest eleven
And they all gotta eat so I bury my feelings and stand on my feet
Like they told me, gotta be grown they told me
You're on your own they told me, but we're not alone He showed me

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

Yeah, patiently waiting for God to show me signs I need
I'm not the man for the job, all the things I can't be
Put all my feelings aside
I think that I'll be better off when I'm not alive
Fought through depression for years and I tried to hide it
Almost put pressure and pulled it but I decided
To give it all that I can
But this what it's like to be a man

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

As a man if you show your emotions they take you for weak and this ain't nothing new
Teaching my son to be mentally strong and prepare for the battle, he ain't even two
Being a father is lit but I gotta admit that sometimes I don't know what to do
Provide and protect was the name of the game I was playing for you and you know that it's true
Unconditional love ain't reality but you can't take a look from my view
A lotta my days were blooping and dogging me so I fought and you didn't have a clue
When I had it we had it together but now we divided your colors are true
I shouldn't have to ask for no help if you knew I was struggling, I woulda did it for you

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

I'm sorry, I never knew
All the things that you go through
I never meant to put your pain aside
Didn't mean to make you need to hide
These demons in your head, they'll tell you you're less than
But I'm here to tell you that you're more than perfect
And don't let the voices make you think you're worthless
'Cause you're worth it, you've got this

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain (I just hope I'll understand)
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

There's just a lot I wanna say
To be a man requires you to hide the pain, you find yourself
Inside a hole you can't get out, even though you wanna shout
'Cause the pain is just unbearable (oh no no)
I just wanna cry and be given a hug
And be told everything will be okay

I have a family that depends on me, oh

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

Look, as a man they expect you to be strong, as someone to lean on no matter what you dealing with
I just lost a couple friends to drugs and when I woke up in the morning man I really wasn't feeling it
But I gotta try to bottle the pain but when they took my son away I had to try to find a will to live
Putting five whole years at a job then I got laid off and the news had me feeling sick
I been drowning in the deep end, anybody wanna give me a reason?
I don't even try to bother with a social life 'cause I would rather be alone on the weekends
Just chilling with my demons, and I just to suppress the depression, in need of a blessing 'cause I'm really 'bout to lose it all
Just remember that I tried to be a man when you lose me y'all and I'm gone

I can't hide myself
I don't expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it's like to be a man
It's a lonely road
And they don't care 'bout what you know
It's not 'bout how you feel
But what you provide inside that home

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To Be A Man (Mega Remix)
Shane / Ben Becker / Dax / Phix / Atlus / Romeo ThaGreatwhite / Brutha Rick / Skywalker DaVinci / Hailey Dayton / Kaveman Brown / The Mediary